u/Expensive_Coast_4412

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Hello. This is a little embarrassing but I want to put in here. Looking for genuine advice only.

So I’m 26m and have been working for the same company for 5 years, since I graduated college. I don’t feel comfortable getting more specific about the company because I am overly paranoid about someone from work seeing this post.

Anyway a bunch of us were being sent on a work trip. They said they would be providing us with our own hotel rooms, but if any of us were willing to double up to save money they would give each person doing that some complimentary drink vouchers. Me and another guy around my age decided to take advantage of that and just bunk together.

Anyway on the first night we go back to the room. It is important to note that neither of us had any drinks that night. I get ready for bed, and like what I think is standard for most guys my age, I wore my underwear to bed (nothing out of the ordinary, just standard underwear). He told me “put some clothes on, you’re not alone.” At this point it’s 11. I told him if it’s that important to him I can go to the store and pick up some athletic shorts during our down time tomorrow, but tonigjt I’m just going to sleep in this. He grumbles about it but I just ignore it and go to sleep.

I find out the second day that he told a lot of our coworkers about it and they seem to think I’m some weirdo now. And today I my boss verbally told me to come into his office tomorrow to have a chat about an incident that happened on the work trip. I can’t think of what else this could refer to. What should I do?

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u/Expensive_Coast_4412 — 8 days ago

Hello. This is a little embarrassing but I want to put in here. Looking for genuine advice only.

So I’m 26m and have been working for the same company for 5 years, since I graduated college. I don’t feel comfortable getting more specific about the company because I am overly paranoid about someone from work seeing this post.

Anyway a bunch of us were being sent on a work trip. They said they would be providing us with our own hotel rooms, but if any of us were willing to double up to save money they would give each person doing that some complimentary drink vouchers. Me and another guy around my age decided to take advantage of that and just bunk together.

Anyway on the first night we go back to the room. It is important to note that neither of us had any drinks that night. I get ready for bed, and like what I think is standard for most guys my age, I wore my underwear to bed (nothing out of the ordinary, just standard underwear). He told me “put some clothes on, you’re not alone.” At this point it’s 11. I told him if it’s that important to him I can go to the store and pick up some athletic shorts during our down time tomorrow, but tonigjt I’m just going to sleep in this. He grumbles about it but I just ignore it and go to sleep.

I find out the second day that he told a lot of our coworkers about it and they seem to think I’m some weirdo now. And today I my boss verbally told me to come into his office tomorrow to have a chat about an incident that happened on the work trip. I can’t think of what else this could refer to. What should I do?

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u/Expensive_Coast_4412 — 8 days ago