Hello everyone!
I think that a little bit of back story would be fitting. My parents are constructing a new build home and he (SP - 31M) works in construction and was contracted to do a job for the house. During a meeting about said house, I 25F met him and instantly felt attracted to him. I wouldn't say it was his looks per say but I loved his personality. I thought he was super genuine, humble, smart and funny and I know how this is going to sound but I felt like our auras just worked well together and there was this instant connection. I'm literally saying this based on pure vibes (fyi, I would say I am a very spiritual person). Anyway, I did like him from that day. After that day, he replied to a message I sent him and misspelled my name even though my name is literally on my profile (this mistake never happened after but still). A few months went by and we were no contact because there was no need to talk and then we had another house meeting where we were discussing what we wanted for the house, during said meeting I was showing him a design picture on my phone and he literally stood behind me to the point that his chest was pressed against my back and he peered around my shoulder to look at my phone even though I was holding it towards him. I'm telling you guys my heart was beating so fast and my stomach was doing flips that I thought I was going to pass out. After that day, my feelings returned tenfold. I thought that was weird for him to do that to a client if there wasn't something going on or some kind of mutual attraction so IDK please advise. A few months go by again and then we have another meeting, during this meeting my sister was here and she noticed that even if he didn't need to have eye contact with me he would be looking at me and when I left the room, he also left the room. During this meeting he went to show me something on his phone and he literally pressed his side against my side, like he came into me so hard that I literally bounced back. But to make it known I moved back until we were completely touching again LOL. Anyway my sister was also like yea its weird that he would do that if he didn't have any feelings. Here's the kicker tho that has me confused. He literally will ghost me sometimes. He would send me something that needs approval or I will ask a question, he will reply and then I reply back and then book radio silence again. Like obviously, if he liked me he would be dying to text me no? Anyway it's been a while since I last saw him or had any contact with him and I'm not sure when or if there will be another time that we can have a chance to interact. Sorry, this is basically it but I made a long story into a short one. I guess I am asking 2 things, one was a delusional in thinking that he liked me? And, please please please help me manifest him contacting me or just asking me out because I really do like him and felt a vibe that we would be good together or that he would be significant in my life romantically. I'm telling you when we first met, I have never felt that kind of energy before. Please help a girl out.