u/Existing_Country_199

I’m 16 M and my older brother is 20M. hes a naturally energetic person and ive been recently going through some personal things with my friends at school. ive been coming home in a pretty bad mood because of it and my brother always just smiles at me and waves in the goofiest way possible and it pisses me off so much, i give him no response at all to show him how annoying he is but he continues to do it and i hate it. i eventually told him off because of how much he pissed me off and he calls me “ungrateful” and he dumbs down the situation to make it sound like its not a big deal, and now were not on talking terms. i need opinions on this because i completely disagree with him, am i not valid for my feelings? is my brother not being ignorant here or something?