u/Existing-Pumpkin-902

I'm 12 weeks pregnant and I've been thinking about how I want to feed my baby. I'm a first time mom. My husband likes the idea of breastfeeding but is supportive of whatever I want since it's my body. I'm really physically put off my breastfeeding. I have an in person job I'll need to return too when the baby is 3 months and pumping also seems impossible under those circumstances. Yes, legally I should get a pump room but I don't physically see anywhere in my workplace for that physically to be. Another thing is I have bad anxiety. Good quality sleep is very important to me and I'm getting really sick of everyone saying I'll never sleep again once the baby arrives. The thought of being the only on demand feeding machine is not attractive. I've read lots of stories of women who can't leave the house for more than 2 hours without their baby because the baby refuses a bottle. It's kind of ruining my pregnancy. My husband and I will be 50/50 on baby duties so breastfeeding doesn't seem realistic for us. I'm hopeful we can establish a regular rotation between us so we're still regularly sleeping. I guess I want to know if the sleep issues were better for people who just formula fed vs breast feeding or pumping? Was the return to work easier? Etc

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u/Existing-Pumpkin-902 — 15 days ago
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I use rocket money. I'm open to other budgeting apps but right now I've been using rocket money. What annoys me about it I want to differentiate between regular and one time expenses. For example I had to stay at a hotel this weekend to be near a testing center for an exam early the next day. This is not a regular occurrence but it's adding it to my monthly regular bills as if it's the same as groceries or gas. I pay for vacations out of designated savings fund but it just shows up as regular spending which is annoying because I've already "spent" the money previously. I find it frustrating to not be able to easily see my core vs one time event spending difference. Any recs in the app or different software? Or how to configure this app?

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u/Existing-Pumpkin-902 — 15 days ago