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I quit around mid february and I haven't had any urges to touch the app ever since. I actually went to this subreddit for advice and found most of it very helpful.

I went cold turkey and ignored the urge any time it came up, doing something else or daydreaming in my head - which I already do often. I swatted the urge away whenever it came up and it worked.

I've been writing a lot more, reading more and just having more fun in general.

Out of curiosity, I visited the site and wow....it's shit.

If I didn't quit before, i would've now because damn....it's so shitty. (Which is good because I've always hated most AI "tools")

In this situation, Aizawa and Mic haven't told anyone other than staff that they're married, nor that they have adopted Shinsou and Eri, with Mic also adopting Ezra after they got married.

They kept it quiet because they know the students would go batshit insane over it and would never let them see another moment of peace over it.

However, Iida (assuming your OC is in class 1-A) lets it slip that they are married because his older brother took him to the wedding when Iida was around 5 or so. Ezra and All Might were in charge of training the first years at the time, meaning that after Iida let it slip, Ezra was bombarded with questions and attention. Poor All Might tried mitigating the situation with no success.

How does your OC react to the information, either made known by Iida or at some later time when the info inevitably spread through the rest of the school?

Assume that your OC knows Ezra some degree, whether it's from the sport's festival her first, second and third year, if you're part of the first years she helps Aizawa and Vlad train or other passing moments.

You're hit by a quirk that sends into an alternative universe for about a couple days to a week and you see Ezra.

Except she's different.

In this particular time-frame, it looks like she's in her first year in high school, so she's about two years younger than she is now.

The first thing you notice is her hair is all black. She's also donned in an all-black, crudely made hero costume consisting of a black sweatshirts, some elbow, forearm and knee pads, a small belt containing many things and spiked combat boots.

It's around night-time and she seems on high alert as she regards you with a sense of suspicion and mistrust.

It's clear that she's an illegal vigilante, and one with a rough past. Small bruises peek out from underneath her hoodie and her knuckles are bandaged heavily - either from fighting villains or excessive training. Whatever happened to Ezra in this universe was obviously rough and took a massive toll on her.

She's perched on a high building, regarding you warily from the other side as she waits for you to make a move.

How does your OC react to this situation?

(This is based off a post I saw earlier asking about AUs for your OCs.

In this AU, Ezra's mother never left and raised her with her shitty and everchanging regime of boyfriends. Half of them are abusive and the other half are good men who leave because Ezra's mother is a shitty person.

Her hair is all black her because in the original AU, she dyed it to match with Hizashi after he and Aizawa got married. She still has her scars on her eye and neck, since that it what I've deemed to be her canon event.

She still retains her uncanny profiling ability and fighting skills as well.)

I was talking with my mom and the topic of me being confused about it anything came up (basically what she views as being in the closet) and I told not really and not I just identified as aroace.

I told her what that meant and she went on a bit about how I haven't met the right person and how I'm still growing.

And she did make some good points, like how I'm part of the minority here and I just haven't found my type.

I don't think she's being intentional hateful but rather she just doesn't understand some identies​.

She's fine with non binary and Trans people (and other among the lgbtqa+ community) but when I also mentioned considering she/they, she was slightly confused. She said why not she go by she/her if you identify as feminine if you're not non binary?

She's a sweet woman with an rbf, I won't lie, but I think she just doesn't understand certain labels and in turn, accidentally being...rude? (Idk what to call it). She's also the older side so I don't blame her for anything but I do feel a little disheartened about it.

Advice?