u/Exercise-Fragrant

I really ought to write a will.

I am single and childless. My only sibling lives in America. I would like him to be the main beneficiary, with some friends getting smaller amounts.

I have a mortgaged house (about £260k equity) and various savings accounts and a S&S ISA (about £10k total). My work pays death in service benefits. Other than my mortgage I don't have any debt. I expect my equity and savings to slightly increase over the years.

My parents are in their 70s and I don't want to burden them with being my executors in the event of my untimely demise. Also the expectation would be they die before I do. I have a few questions:

  1. Expecting a friend to be my executor seems a bit much as there's so much work involved. Would my best option be to get a professional executor? If so, how should I find one? What would I look out for when hiring one?

  2. Are there any legal issues with leaving my brother my home? I expect he would want to sell it and keep the proceeds. Could I expect the executor to do this on his behalf?

  3. Ideally I would want my friends and parents (if they're still alive) to keep what they want of my belongings. How can this be arranged in my will/ with the executor?

If there's any other advice or personal experience you have to share re professional executors please do!

Thank you.

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u/Exercise-Fragrant — 13 days ago