Okay, so I just want to start off by saying I’m not making this post to hate on him, but I think it gets to a point where it just feels like clout chasing, and honestly… kind of embarrassing.
Fear is real. Anxiety is real. It’s a human emotion, and it doesn’t suddenly disappear just because someone is an idol. Being in the public eye doesn’t mean you automatically stop feeling scared, intimidated, or overwhelmed. What happened to empathy?
One of the points he keeps trying to make is that if she’s fearful of something she’s “good at” (clearly referring to her singing), then somehow her fear isn’t valid. He also brings up the same vocal criticism over and over again, saying she’s known for not singing well, which I honestly find absurd. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, nobody is forcing you to like her voice, their music, or even engage with the group. But when you keep coming back to the same group again and again, it starts feeling less like criticism and more like content farming.
He also keeps comparing her to major athletes and well-paid office workers, almost like being successful or making money means your feelings suddenly don’t matter. Fear doesn’t discriminate based on fame, status, or income.
Constructive criticism is one thing, but constant negative framing doesn’t help someone improve, it usually just adds more pressure. Sometimes showing empathy and acknowledging someone’s effort, growth, and courage says a lot more than tearing them down for views.
Anyways im sick of seeing this grown man come on the internet and constantly put them down and to top it off it continues to insults fearnots by calling us delulu