I want to be honest in something that had a certain emotional weight to it. Now I've only posted once and immediately a lot of the attention that came my way isn’t really about me especially not in any meaningful sense. It’s about my appearance, Projection and assumptions being written into narratives I am not interested in. Its not flattering its exhausting.
I didn't post to be distilled into a fantasy, fetish or reduced to something purely physical. I’m not interested in occupying a space shaped by fetishes implication, or expectation that has nothing to do with who I actually am. Me as a whole person!
I'm particularly drawn to something much more quieter, but highly more substantial. I want a kind of love that feels like home, safety even, not intensity for its own sake, but steadiness. A connection that is deliberate, that unfolds with intention and tenderness. I value emotional maturity. Presence. Someone who is not just experiencing life, but consciously building it, molding it toward a home, a partnership, a family, a future that has weight and meaning.
I want to be chosen in a way that is precise and personal and excitement and captivating not for how I’m perceived at a glance, but for who I am in depth, in truth and authenticity Let me be transparent, without edge but without ambiguity: if your interest begins and ends in the physical, or is rooted in fantasy, casualness, or curiosity without substance, sorry break it to you "it's not me you're looking for" Respectfully. However, if you understand love as something constructed with tenderness, with care and highly anchored in respect, consistency, and intention, by all means DMs are open.