Gf chose her male friends over me
I met my gf a little over a year ago I’m not gonna lie and say we had the best relationship ever we had our ups and downs and our fights and everything but overall it never really changed anything we wouldn’t talk for days sometimes we broke up and got back together the average teenager/young adults relationships. We both come from different part of the wilaya so we never grew up knowing each we went to different schools different lives..etc so safe to say we grew up with different friend groups she was social so she had plenty of friends females and males included as for me I never really wanted or needed girl friends so never had one but I wasn’t the type to get mad at her for it, fast forward to these few weeks things got ig I can say distant with her work and mine those conversations we had start to get far and few by the days which she herself said bothered her and I told her I can make time to talk to her anytime she wants I value my work but my love for her was worth more. As a last effort I tried to use every possible moment to get back the time we lost which in return still didn’t make her talk more so I assumed her work was taking all her time. Fast forward to yesterday where I saw she added a new guy so naturally I asked her who he was she said a friend she knew in school and that she enjoys talking to him a lot especially these days since she didn’t see him in a long time ( the guy is younger than her by 2 years I believe). These days ? I said and she replied by affirming that she didn’t stop talking to her friends including the boys in the period where she said she wanted to help OUR situation, I told her why she didn’t wanna talk to me then and she replied by saying talking to me didn’t feel the same anymore and that she thought I didn’t wanna talk anyway with her and something snapped for a moment I didn’t care about us and I asked her one question to chose between them or me and after a day of thinking she said she made her mind and unfollowed me