I need advice and I need support
So we have a 3.5 yo and a 3.5 mo. Our older daughter was very excited all through my pregnancy, totally on board when I went to the hospital, very gentle and welcoming to her baby sister. No jealousy or hatred whatsoever. BUT as time goes by she is demanding way more engagement. My husband has taken over bedtime duties and she enjoys bedtime with papa. She goes swimming with papa on Sundays. Papa does quite a lot of outdoor activities with her almost daily. I do morning routine with her: getting her dressed for daycare, breakfast and all. I pick her up everyday from daycare. I paint, sing, dance, play in the garden every chance I get while the baby naps. But she seems to never be content it all of it. Today i picked her up from daycare, we went grocery shopping because SHE wanted to go, we took a bath together, we played in the garden, and we played inside learning alphabets. Thats 4 naps for the baby and that’s 4 activities which were all 1:1. And yet she wanted more. I feel drained. I don’t get a break. I feel like I just going from one thing to another with no breather. I have tried everything. Telling her about the time when she was a baby, including her in baby things, hyping her up for doing big sister things so well. Nothing seems to work. I feel like I am constantly either saying no ir trying to redirect her when she starts arguing or demanding more attention. She is a sweet and compassionate kid, but I really don’t know how I can handle this anymore. I am literally so tired and so so so done.