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Hi all,
Apologies in advance for a lengthy post and if this isnt the right place for it. I'm just keen to hear some perspectives from fellow Adelaidians and Australians.
I’ve noticed that when I walk past groups of people (especially at night), it often feels like they get louder or act weird as I pass. Occasionally it does seem more obvious (like someone whispering something, looking at me and laughing), but a lot of the time it’s subtle and hard to tell.
A few nights ago, I was trying to enjoy a night out with my partner and we got heckled by a group of young people making faces and pointing and laughing at us which is what made me write this post.
I have social anxiety and a history of being bullied, so I’m aware I might be over-interpreting things. At the same time, it happens often enough that it makes me question whether I’m imagining it.
I’m Asian living in Australia, and I can’t help but wonder if that plays a role. Like maybe being seen as non-confrontational or an “easy target.” I’ve experienced some racism in the past, so my brain tends to make that connection. I have to note that 100% of these weird instances do come from Caucasians and never POC.
I guess I’m trying to see if anyone else experiences this? Am I just noticing it more as I get older or are people actually becoming more of a nuisance or both? Does anyone else get random comments, looks or noises thrown at them when you're simply minding your own business? Maybe it's a case of wrong place wrong time? Any other Asian Australians in this sub who can relate? Is it possible its racially motivated instances?
I know in the grand scheme of things it seems like such a non issue, but when happening frequently, it really does chip away at my confidence over time and I guess I'm just feeling a little disheartened. I want to be able to go out feeling safe and not be bothered or made fun of by randoms on the street.
Please share your thoughts
Thanks all