Spent over a year on a quilt, on the outs with the friend its for...
Been working on this special custom quilt in favorite colors and interests for a friend for a long time now. I finished all the quilting on it and it just needs binding now.
Our friendship is not what it was when I started.
Im leaning towards giving it to her anyway bc *I* was a good friend to her, and I would like if she would look at in the future and remember me and maybe feel a little sad about what she did. However, she does not think and probably would never have the internal sense to know she isnt the world's purest victim. We probably "grew apart" from her perspective and nothing she did...
(Basically she starting making substantially more money than our friend group and got an attitude about it. Stupid things like fighting us over the AC, making bad decisions but not accepting any advice. She didnt do anything especially egregious just quit being a good friend to us, has to have the upper hand, and can NOT be wrong about anything.)
Not to mention she doesnt take very good care of her things. It may just end up in a pile somewhere...
What would you do if you make a huge custom project for someone then the friendship sorta came apart before you finished