u/Every-Contest5276

I can’t hold this in anymore, guys.

I used to work at a big bank in the Philippines with a red logo. Many years ago, I had a secret office relationship with a colleague. She was already married at the time to the son of someone famous. Now, she is the head of the bank’s asset management arm and has two beautiful daughters.

I regret what happened. We were in love, but I came from a poor background and graduated from a state university, while she chose to marry a rich man to advance her career. After a few years, she left me, and I eventually moved on.

Is this normal among female bankers? After that experience, I never got married and became traumatized.