Note: I’m NOT Demi-sexual.
These are men I see most days but I’ve never met, I know nothing about their personality. I just see around at the gym or a large office or something. Guys I wouldn’t usually swipe right on.
I could be quite indifferent to them for the longest time and then one day start to catch some feelings and then BAM full on infatuation or limerence happens out of nowhere.
They say there’s a law of propinquity or something. I just find it so bizarre. It catches me off guard especially because of the sudden intensity. I do think this is why I have trouble with dating apps and trying to connect so quickly.
I get the comfort with the familiar piece. But the sexual attraction gets elevated significantly with these LOs and I don’t know why. These aren’t men who noticed me first. It’s like they suddenly come into my awareness and there’s no going back