Rant MOH very demanding and not willing to adjust
Just wanted an outlet to rant here. So I'm the bride, for context I got two of my sister's as my MOH. Older and younger. I'm so stressed with my other MOH younger sister cause aside from the stress and many activities I'm going thru I set like a schedule for the designer and like she was saying she can't go cause she had plans w her bf and my older was like it's ok I'll just adjust even if she also has plans w her bf. Later on little sister said she can go. Then when we were there she started complaining about the color I chose for her. I'm so annoyed because it took me like two weeks narrowing the color palette making sure it looks cohesive. My peg kasi is strawberry matcha. I gave them old rose. She started saying she wants a diff color that fits her skin. I get it but like because of her request I might have to change the other three colors I've narrowed down. In my head like gurl it's not your wedding naman why can't you just like agree nalang on it than the bride adjusting her whole pallette pa. Valid ba siya or should I adjust? Then she went on pa saying in my wedding I won't give restrictions to my team except you. Tapos on purpose she told me pa na I'm gonna choose a color na not bagay for me. Like wth. I'm not even doing this on purpose I just had to make sure the colors look cohesive. And to be fair she's white naman eh so old rose still looks good on her. It also has to match my mom kasi she's maroon so she can't be a bright pink. So I'm just annoyed cus first time to experience this. I was bridesmaidsl also and even if di bagay for me I don't complain I just follow cause that's what the bride wants and who am I to like enforce a color Diba?