My situationship is treating me like a stranger and spitting on my loyalty. Am I wrong for wanting one final conversation?
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Pata hai aaj kya hua i 19F have been in a situationship for 1.5 years that felt like a full-blown relationship. I was completely devoted to him I deleted my Instagram and Snapchat accounts just to make him feel secure. I stayed by his side while he cried over his past and his secrets. I felt like his only support system.
Since I’ve started asking for basic honesty about things I found out (like his secrets regarding other women), he has turned incredibly cold. He claims I’m crossing boundaries just by wanting to talk.
In our latest argument, he told me "I spit on this loyalty" because he found a cleared chat from a time I was feeling pressured and scared of his reaction. When I begged him to just have one calm, 5-minute conversation so we didn't end things with so much hate, he just texted "Yeah goodbye" and stopped responding.
I feel completely discarded. He acts like I’m an immature kid for wanting closure after everything we went through.
Is it crossing boundaries to ask for a final phone call instead of a cold text?
TL;DR: I gave my all to a 1.5-year situationship, including deleting my social life for him. Now that I’m moving, he’s using boundaries as an excuse to be cruel and refuses to give me even five minutes of his time.