To keep it short; my ex girlfriend of 3 years cheated on me a week and a half ago and now she’s moved out, so I’m stuck paying full rent until I find a new place.
I have a few places in mind that I can move to but I have no money saved at all for a bond, and BNZ just declined my loan application for one so I’m stuck.
3 years ago I absolutely would have money saved for something like this but while we lived together I paid for all the bills and groceries because she’s paying for student loans but I’ve also found out she was excessively spending on her credit card as well, which just adds insult to injury when she was constantly on my ass about money and how broke we are. I don’t know how I was so blind I just figured we could work through it if I worked harder but here I am lol. I’m an idiot
Anyway I’m literally broken and have no idea how to move forward with this, I can barely afford full rent until the lease breaks in August and I won’t be able to save even if I work 49 hours a week. Please let me know if you have any ideas