Never tell anyone irl your @: Potential unwanted contact from someone?
hi yall. I’m facing a really hard decision right now and I wanted to get your feedback. lately I have had a feeling that one of my consistent subscribers is someone I formerly talked to years ago and they are communicating with me pretending to be someone else. yes i am posting from my real reddit account.
before I started fansly I entertained reddit DMs I met this person through there. We developed a long distance talking situation and I eventually ended things. This was a couple years ago. not the best mov but I had no thought of the time of making content on fansly. Last summer I got a message out of them blue from them. They were angry still after a year and had sent an anon gift to my house from my wishlist. I thought their behavior seemed really odd and concerning and told them it would be best not to contact me and find mental health support. I told them to please leave my platforms alone and to not engage with them since I felt it would unhealthy and crossed a boundary.
Two months after that message exchange, I got a subscriber who has turned to be more and more “obsessive“ I’ve had passing thoughts it could have been them but ignored it. However the other day I scanned messages and realized that a lot of their kinks, custom requests and general typing really matched them and had a panic attack.
they consistently will send money and demand a quick turn around and “need” something quickly. I usually fulfill when I am able. They also are super pushy about any b/g content which I dont make. They contentiously ask if I will and then even asked for an audio recording. I’ve been here for two years and no one has ever done that. They also ask if I had have relaironship with people sexually. I usally don’t answer but they send multiple messages in a short period to get my attention. I’m never has a subscriber act like this consistently for months even after ignoring those questions. They are one of my biggest spenders unfortunately, but the thought that it is them freaks me out.
i texted a boundary message to them on Friday after a year of basically no contact to remind them that that I do not want them on my platforms and that I felt they may be doing so and that It made me uncomfortable. they never answered and blocked me which I kind suspicious. the account I think is them I just asked “if they had read my message“ I send a few mass dms out per week and several chars a day so it was vague. this person responded somewhat hostile “I don’t know what too went me to do with them” I send a ? back and they had a attitude with me. I said “honestly to answer my question” they then telll me they are just here for content and not giving any personal details out?? idk it seemed so strange.
i have thought about contacting support but i feel torn because they are a big spender but my intuition, their behavior, kinks, and way of typing line up to them