This is not his fault he is on little sleep, a lot of stress, missed his meds, and my sister has been crying for days.
but my brother in law just went on a long rant about how im a horrible person who get everything from others, just sit on my ass and other people are in pain too that there are Olympians in more pain than me and how I should be nice to my sister and the least I could do is help her.
Their dog got hit by a car a few days ago and now needs 24 hour supervision and is in a lot of pain. I have already agreed to help on Mondays and Fridays for the next 10 weeks to watch him for a few hours when my brother in law and sisters work overlap.
I live with my father, step mom and 2 year old little sister. Because I can't work, my job is to watch the baby.
Step mom works night shift and father days so usually am alone with her about 8-10 hours a day she is asleep for some of that but mostly its go go go.
Today my sister asked if I could watch the dog on very short notice because she needed out of the house since she has been crying for days. I told her I was alone with the baby and didn't feel comfortable having the first time watching the dog having to also watch the 2 year old (in a non baby proof house)
She was sobbing. its not my fault she is just really stressed and sleep deprived. My mother was able to babysit on short notice so I went to my sister's house to help. I proceeded to be told how to help the dog by my sister then get screamed at as by my brother in law got his socks and shoes on to leave for work.
And I don't think anyone else is thinking how mentally taxing taking care of a 2 year old and a very injured dog who need quite and rest and to not be bothered would be even if I didn't have brain fog and the inability to stand quickly.