how to get over limerence of another man while in a relationship
hi all, i F20 have been with my boyfriend (M20) for two years. i really love my boyfriend and see a future with him, however i have been facing a problem. About three years ago, i had a massive crush on a guy (M23) I volunteered with to the point of infatuation. I would think about him constantly, and had to leave the volunteer job because I would just think about him and create scernaio s in my head about us all day as a form of procrastination. After i left, i would meet my boyfriend who i love to death.
when i am with my boyfriend i do not think about this other man, but when i am alone he is stuck on my mind. i think about scernaio where this man shows up to me and my boyfriend works and flirts with me, i daydream about my boyfriend being jealous of this other guy. i do not think my daydreams are more sexual to the guy, but more so i daydream of my boyfriend being jealous, and of me being wanted. Is there anyway to stop these thoughts? thank you!