I am writing this a a helpless mother. My daughter is studying SY. I have found multiple packets of cigarettes at home and tried to make her understand not to do this many times sweetly.. she said those belong tonsome friend, jot hers since many.months. however our house isnfull of smoke. Recently she started going out with someone midnight 2/3 am and smokes with them. I caught her red handed at 3.30 am. I have seen someone watching secretly and turned away from neighborhoods. Given the cases of molestation, i am.worried. She always keeps room locked and does not share any friends details with me. After getting caught she is threatening me of suicide and not continuing college education. She has no shame of smoking or late night outings. Request to all here, if you know someone pls help to sort this out. I want her to get back on track fior education . I am.workong.mother and need to do job for living. She is also threatening me to contact my office people's i that case inwill lose my job.
If anyone reading this know this girl, pls help. Dhe has blocked all people, her uncle and aunt , no access we srw very open minded, no restrictions for bf .or financial supprt for her. So with folded hands, pls help mother of this child
Edit - i tried speaking to her to clarify as per her understanding 1. Smoking and late night outings are not bad. She is not xomme ting to stop this.2 she think myself , her mother needs a psychiatrist so she is planning to take me to one 3. She does not fear police , they are of no use.
Frankly now, I am not sure how to proceed because she seems to be under very stong bad influence. Pls help me on to proceed. She is running her own life by doing this