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For some background, I quit my role in the benefits administration industry in March, due to burnout after 2 years. Despite being on track to promotion, I could tell that seniority there just meant the same impossible deadlines with a larger workload and messier assignments. No new skills to learn. It was a sort of project management role and I always brought it home with me mentally.

I am a quick learner, thorough, dependable, and sharp. Throughout my career, I have stood out and promptly been identified as an exceptional employee. I care about the work I put out. Unfortunately, that usually leads to stretching myself too thin. I want to find a role that cultivates my growth but doesn’t feel like my soul is being sucked out of me. Which leads to my current two job prospects…

Company A Pros: •Same wage as previous position, around $26-27 •New industry (real estate investment/development) •Many options for health insurance

Cons: •During interview #2 with VP of the department, she stated that the company “restructures and reorgs a lot, so you should be comfortable with the uncomfortable and lots of change”. This really shook me up.

Company B Pros: •simple data entry role •new industry (logistics) •lots of room for growth and learning other roles since the job usually gets done early in the day •same commute distance as Company A

Cons: •significant pay cut ($21/hr) •only offers Kaiser

No offer letters yet, but the in-person interview today with Company B went very well, and the team was very friendly. Any advice?

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u/Electronic_Ad_7312 — 8 days ago

These couples felt super off to me for the entire show.

Leela looked like she was in pain whenever Koray kissed her, and it never really showed them having a genuine conversation. They didn’t even get a date off the yacht! Their PDA in general seemed forced. Just felt like she wanted to stay on the topside and would divert attention to other couples so none was drawn to them. Just very immature and a major instigator.

Gia had a lot of rage when it came to critiquing the David/Val situation, which was valid ofc, but nobody EVER called her out for betraying Beau? It was so hypocritical IMO and nobody ever brought it up. They had made a secret deal to get to the topside by tricking someone up there, except she didn’t mind if that meant her getting up there solo. She also kept both Beau and Tim guessing, for at least a day or two, and didn’t even want to kiss Tim. I think their PDA and conversations did feel way more real and compatible in comparison to Leela and Koray’s. But, similar to Leela, Gia was just trying to stay up there and was ultimately bothered by the age gap maybe? Obviously all speculation lol.

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u/Electronic_Ad_7312 — 19 days ago