His brother(24?) does nothing. We live in a camper thats 34 foot he lives in the living room behind a curtain cuz we split one slide out w him. Anyway my bf works full time and over time some days out of the week and i do all the cleaning and my bf does help me and do stuff around the house if need be and fixes shit for us, builds shit for us all the time including his brother. His brother is the type of person who eill just stand there and watch my bf do something for whether its building the curtain rod thing for him or fixing his desk or whatever he just watches. He does zero chores. He watches me do it all. Its not hard work but im starting to hate his presence in the house. I cannot wait to get our own place. Ofc were not gonna leave him jobless and move out, so hes gonna need to get a job soon.
He had one job in the two bedroom apartment we lived in before (never wanna go back to that shithole again), which was to clean the litter box. He didnt do it often enough at all. Same with this. Today one of our cats shat in the living room straight up andi asked him can you do it and he said ok and then he got on rust and now hes playing. How much longer are you gonna wait to provide the cats a clean place to pee and shit??? Until she takes another shit on the floor??
He does fucking nothing and he gets pouty and pissy when asked to do anything and complains about how much he does. He thinks if he washes his own cup to make coffee is equivalent to him doing all the fucking dishes.
Not to mention i clean everyrhinf almost everyday only to wake up and find all the dishes piled up again and the house disorganized. It makes me feel like im just cleaning for him to fuck it up when im up tmrw, because he is awake at night all night. My bf told me he will do the chores and i do not want him to. I feel so bad that his brother is so incompetant.
He told me he is gonna have to talk to him or confront him on this matter bcz this is getting ridiculous. But im afraid of confrontation or shit being tense around the house. But fuck him honestly, everyday i wake up with a little more resentment towards his brother.
And also i dont mind cleaning at all it brings me peace and a clean environment is very important to my mental health. The problem is the fact that i have a man baby who is constantly in the fucking house that does absolutely fucking nothing and watches me do everything around the house, while contributing NEGATIVELY to the house bcz i have to clean up again bcz he cannot keep it clean or do his own dishes when he uses them all.
There are lids for containers in the sink bcz he had used all the plates already. I cant.