Let’s talk about mainly singles and unmarried. You can see most of them share common unattractive traits.
Men
Style: No sense of it. Wearing football jerseys, army singlets or any event tees.
Outlook in life: Typically mummy’s boys and bring parents for major life decisions like buying an hdb flat. Can’t decide for themselves and hide behind the excuse of filial piety.
Hobbies: Gaming, watching football, etc.. Not willing to travel and mix with different cultures. Little bit of money, will go to Thai discos and drink.
Women
Style : Some don’t bother to groom or even comb hair
Outlook in life: Extremes of being either over reliant on men or think men are pigs. Don’t offer much in a relationship.
Hobbies: Shopping, social media, etc.. Whiny and just terrible dating partners.
Just some examples. If certain groups of people bother to upgrade and be more open minded, they won’t be involuntarily single. These days people rely on apps to find a mate, they find it difficult to manage real life conversations.
How many are willing to date outside your race, nationality or comfort zone.