u/Electrical_Serve3080

How to deal with fake friends?

I came to grow so close with this one guy that he calls me everyday just to not feel lonely.

I now see that he is the most toxic, narcissistic, attention seeking guy ever and hes controlling. Doesnt respect boundaries nor cares about anyone but himself. Im sick of hearing shit about other people just for the sake of laughing and putting them down.

I only now realise that it truly is "You are who you hang ou with" and I wanna be as far as I can from whoever he is. I went along with it but yesterday he broke a deal to make himself look better and more caring. He is calling me to go out and doesnt realise what hes done or that I am mad. He never sees his mistakes and thinks everything he does is the right thing to do.

How do I steer away from him and make myself seem so boring that he doesnt want to hang around me? Too many times I said "maybe he will change". Idc no more I just want him as far away from me as possible but we go to the exact same classes and I see him everyday? How to make him stop using me as well?

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u/Electrical_Serve3080 — 6 days ago