SO whenever im reading up on others explanations about san diego they alwasy say "its a good and calm state but not fun" and if i want excitment to go to los angeles.
But currently (23, M) living in arizona im getting a sense of depression especially since my friends live in san diego i would always fly to them and hangout for months on end. So knowing i have to come back to arizona is extrememly demotivating and depressing and its intefering with my life.
San diego is so beautiful i almost feel like i know the state like the back of my hand but i am a musician and live n breathe the music i make if thats by myself or with friends so clearly los angeles is the move. So i guess im asking has anyone whos creative ever been stuck on deciding if san diego is the move and you just travel to LA? or stay in LA and travel to SD?
At the current moment im seeking peace and almost a full reset in my favorite place, ONLY because it feels like home to me. But i have a bit of a small fanbase who seeks my art and i know if im in los angeles with the current connections, a quick blow up would be upon me i fear.
I have a 401k, a good savings, i would have a immediate job if i chose to move to either city. And i would 100% roommate for 2 more years as my career pops.
I have had friends move to each state with nothing close to what i already have and make absolute livings, so im not worried about all of that just mainly which is better for my current situation with myself.
Any opinions are greatly appreciated