u/Electrical_City929

I’m really close to my roommate we’ve been friends since freshman year of college and we’re sophomores now. I’ve let the cleanliness of the apartment slide a little since both of them are STEM majors but a few times it felt like I was constantly cleaning up after them I brought it up.
I feel like they both think that they clean up after themselves but they really don’t. Like half the time they do I guess but there’s always crumbs on the counter that they don’t pick up that I always end up doing. It’s not that bad but things are always messy and food is always in the counter or they keep it in the microwave/oven instead of in the fridge.
I brought it up with them again like 5 weeks ago and we started doing a cycle one person on floors another or dishes and another on garbage and we switch every week.
This week I was on dishes and I put the dishes away every morning from the dish washer and even though I shouldn’t have to I put there dirty dishes into the dish washer from the counter and living room. I also cleaned the sink and put the dishes in the drying rack away.
Today is Friday. It’s finals week so I understand they are busy but the garbage was so full there were fruit flies so I asked roommate one so
“who’s on garbage duty?”
And she said me!! Me????
It’s soooo frustrating because they watch me do my chores and pick up and stuff why are you doing nothing after I’ve asked you so many times? Obviously I’m not on trash duty because I’ve been doing dishes all week I’m honestly really upset cause I just keep asking and nothing happens