We’re basically best friends. Recently things started to shift and we kinda entered a situationship phase. We both caught feelings, but at the same time we’re very different standards and prospectives when it comes to relationships, so we both agree that we wouldn’t work as a typical couple.
The problem is, the attraction is still there. both emotional and physical. We already cross the line sometimes with flirting and intimate talk, so it’s not completely “just friends” anymore. but I don’t like to be in this gray zone.
I also know this might sound a bit toxic from both sides. Regarding some commitment issues, and I’m not really ready to give him the full validation of a relationship. At the same time, he’s more on the conservative side when it comes to dating, so we’re clearly not on the same page long-term.
That’s why the FWB idea came up. It feels like why not just enjoy what we have, without forcing it into something we both know won’t work? Just chill, no pressure, no expectations.
But honestly, I’m still overthinking it because I really don’t wanna lose him, and he feels the same about me. I don’t know if this will make things better or completely ruin out perfect friendship.
So I’m asking has anyone been in a similar situation? Did FWB with a close friend work for you, or did it mess everything up?