u/Eggshe36lol

There’s a lot of background context to this but I (22m) have been working with this girl(20f) for about a year now. In all honesty I was pretty much instantly attracted to her and throughout this past year we had great general chemistry(very flirty vibes) and talked a decent bit. Cut to recently around the beginning of April things changed I went from working with her constantly to being in a different area with little to no contact with her and a few semi-work related texts she sent me I answered very dry in a stark comparison to how I would interact with her before (very warm and conversational). Then one day I’m out power washing in a closed off area I operate at my work, sun beating down, dirt and water spraying everywhere, so I had my shirt off. I didn’t know until 3 days later but apparently she was watching me from a window behind a curtain and taking pictures or video of me shirtless out in the sun. I’m an objectively fit person, going to the gym everyday and have a generally appealing body, so I wrote off the thought of bullying type intent. But after this happened and I would see her around she became like a robot around me, very nervous, looking past me or avoiding eye contact, and mumbling “hi” “bye” and anything else she would say to me. She started going to the same gym as me in the past two months and started going at the routine time always go, at first I thought nothing of it because it seemed to align a little with our work schedules, but now it kind of spikes an alarm to me. Within the next week of me finding out she had taken this initial picture, I saw her with her friend at the gym and she began to take a video of me in a somewhat obvious way from my view but tried to play it off as her showing her friend something on her phone. Honestly I’m just very lost and confused because it’s hard to tell what’s going on here and our whole dynamic has changed, like I wish we could go back to the good vibes and being friends and such but she acts so weird around me now. Sorry if this is a ramble I’m just stressed about this and feels like a situation out of my control