I don’t know what to make of her doing this.
To give some insight before I move on with my issue:
I recently (3 months ago) broke up with my ex girlfriend which I've had a relationship with for about a year, and I've gone no contact about a month ago.
Not to go to far into detail but our break-up was pretty rocky. She ghosted me for a bit before suddenly making the first proper conversation we have in a while be her proposing the break-up. She lied multiple times about what the reason for the break-up was, leading to me believing she cheated on me after learning about her moving on between 2-4 weeks of us splitting up. (With someone she met before the breakup.)
Shortly after the break-up (5 days later) I realized I felt I was treated extremely unfairly, so in my anger/hurting I wrote a very long message about how she went against all her promises of good contact and whatnot. And when I saw her for the last time to exchange items, she called it a "hate message". Which I can understand why she interpreted it that way. And it wasn't my finest move, I admit. However, I do think she deserves to be called out on her actions. The situation's way more complicated than I've written here.
Our "contact" before I initiated NC was us being in a group-chat we shared, and me talking in there and her talking too. I never really saw it as "contact" because I quite literally never talked to her specifically, but I was still around her and she could piece out how my life was going. When I initiated NC, I blocked her on everything I know and left (that, and) all groupchats we shared.
In any case, the sole reason why I'm writing this is because of the following:
When I initiated NC I happened to forget about one discord-server we shared. The server was dead and buried in my list so I completely forgot about it. It was a server older than our relationship, and it used to be the crux of our (Shared) friend group.
Suddenly though, 10 days after I initiated NC she and her best friend like start talking in it, out of nowhere at the same time at 02:40. Talking about nothing in particular. The first thing I said when I saw them talking was "I completely forgot about this server, should I delete it or does anyone want it?". She stopped talking after that. Later her friend said: “It sucks that this server is dead now, it used to be so fun to hang out and stuff. But it’s probably because people hate each other now…” The only real drama there was in that gc was something unrelated, and I guess you could call my situation with my ex drama too.
Long story short, I left the server, and there hasn't been a SINGLE message in it since. I feel like this is some weird way of her trying to contact me/provoke me or something. But I'm unsure. I'd like to hear your thoughts.
TL;DR:
My ex gf who broke up with me 3 months ago suddenly started texting in an old groupchat we shared 10 days after I initiated NC and I don’t know what to make of it.