What happened to being nonchalant? Why's my guard down...
Feels like I got a strange patch in my 'Operating Soul' (OS)
Ngl I shouldn't be surprised, I'm an aquarius stellium and he a cancer stellium. I do appreciate cuddles too, its important to keep a relationship going and passionate.
But lately i feel like that' alls his talking points, we talk about other things to but he always goes back to wanting to cuddle all the time and what not. I feel like a relationship should be beyond that, we should evolve and complement each other.
We do try activities together when we're out but in the end, he wants to spend most of the time cuddling.
I love him but i feel there needs to be some balance in cuddling and other aspects in the relationship and lately ever since he's been with me, he's been very distracted and clingy with me. He appears tad bit insecure too whenever I'm out for work related/social stuff too.
When I first met him, he appeared so goal oriented and focused which I appreciated and loved about him. Now... he's too focused on me and primarily for cuddling reasons....
I just want the best for us but idk how to get there just yet, there's sm I'd like for our future.
I know this might sound like lobster and steak too buttery type post but just wanted to vent and get some advice here on how to proceed, or if anyone else had a similar case with their heavy placement cancer partner.
There are ofc aspects I love about him- like being funny/sociable, intelligence, taking care of others, being duty minded (cleaning/cooking/repair things from time to time).