u/Educational_List5310

My husband and I are disagreeing on how Mother’s Day should be spent. This is my third Mother’s Day, so plans have been different every year. My husband thinks that if I want to take our daughter to spend the day with my Mom that the day should be split so his Mom can see our daughter that day. I disagree, I don’t feel like I should have to share my time with my mother in law because I’m the one that’s in the thick of Motherhood. Before our daughter was born the day was split between our Mothers, and my husband always expected me to pick out a gift for his Mom. Am I in the wrong and just being selfish? I just feel like it’s my day now and I should be able to spend it the way I want. If he wants our daughter to spend time with his Mom for Mother’s Day I feel I like he should do it the day before or even the weekend before or after Mother’s Day. My husband even said that if we got divorced I wouldn’t get our daughter on Mother’s Day.
All thoughts and advice are welcome! Thanks!