What do you think about someone who, instead of talking to you directly, goes on reddit to ask strangers about your behavior, creates a narrative about you, and even labels you psychologically? In my case, I was already a bit off after something that didn't sit right with me, but finding that post is what made me pull back completely. It didn't sit right with me. I'll also admit I'm not perfect, I made mistakes too while getting to know this person, and I tend to go quiet when I feel disrespected, even if I say it's okay after they apologize. But still, I feel like going to strangers and making assumptions instead of asking me directly isn't the best way to handle things. Would that change how you see the person or am I overthinking it?
u/EducationalAbies4534 — 17 days ago