How to get ‘looser’ down there?
Hey! Sorry for my bad english, it is not my first language but hopefully you will understand.
This is awkward but I need big sis help. I have quite an issue relating to sex. No matter how much my boyfriend helps me relax and gets me super aroused, it seems like I’m never prepared for penetration. I want penetrative sex but whenever we try it is just painful. Boyfriend pretty much has to force himself in and then it’s not enjoyable to either to us so we stop. We tried relaxing pre-sex rituals, using more lubricant, clitoris stimulation etc. however the moment something needs to go inside the vagina - it hurts and doesn’t “fit” (no matter what size it is)
I went to gynaecologist and she said all is well and I just need to relax more. She couldn’t even use her tools on me (sorry, not sure what it’s called in english) yet brushes it off as some kind of mind block. But no matter what I do it doesn’t seem to work. Any tips?