31M / 31 F Break up due to long distance.
This situation is affecting my peace and work indirectly.
I broke up with my girlfriend last month due to issues with long distance. I might sound selfish, but I believe I am in my own healing phase. We met through a matrimonial site and enjoyed two years together. It was clear from my side that I do not do well with long distance relationships, and things were fine until now. Long story short, she has decided to move to Dubai for a year and so. We hadn’t done any formal engagement, and our families don’t know much about us. She kept everything hidden about plan to leave until it was confirmed and presented it emotionally.
I think this has triggered my insecurities somehow, and I find myself overthinking things. if your partner is avoiding communication whats the point...I just want to invest in someone with whom I can be open. I don't want to play hide n seek in relationship. If you want something different, be vocal and respectful. One thing I always value is honesty and communication in a relationship which is being avoided.
her cousin sister is sponsoring her entire expenses, and she seems to have a negative view of men ...dates n numbers still avoiding marriage blame every male who she meets and point out their issues ... When confronted about her opinion on our relationship, she acted normal but clearly dislikes me due to my attitude, which she finds hard to tolerate. I respect her as she works in the aviation industry.
Honestly, my mental health has deteriorated because of this entire setup. I’d rather stay single than date right now.