u/Economy_Tangelo8464

Advice and help

Wouldn’t normally post something like this because nobody will really care but I’m struggling badly I’m in my mid 20’s and I’m really starting to struggle with how I’m feeling I feel like my life is going by and I’m just wasting my life feeling awkward all the time.see a picture of myself and I hate it,hear my voice feel like I sound like a weirdo,if I get compliments I shrug them off and tell myself it’s not true.I don’t know what’s happened to me I was very confident when I was younger and now my confidence is gone. I don’t know why I know struggle to speak with people I’ve had I don’t really know or I know and I’m not good friends with them not that I can’t speak to people I just feel like sometimes that they think oh it’s this guy so I just get in my own head and either hardly say anything or will just say something stupid to try and get a laugh. Haven’t had a girlfriend in years and I’ve had multiple opportunities but now for some reason I try to avoid them even tho I want to be with them but my head is telling me that I’m not good enough and I’ll just decline them. I do have quite a lot of friends and I think now a lot of them are seeing something isn’t right with me anymore I’ve had people say where have I gone and what’s happened to me.I don’t know what to do to fix it i just want to be the person I was when I didn’t hate myself and had a lot of confidence anyone got any advice on what I can do to help thanks

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u/Economy_Tangelo8464 — 1 day ago