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We are 4 siblings and generally have a pretty good relationship. As the bunso tho, I’m naturally closer to our panganay because we share the same friend circles and see each other more often. Si middle sibling 1, OFW while middle sibling 2 andito sa pinas but we're not as close as with panganay.

For my birthday, I’m planning a simple dinner. Just me and my partner, plus our eldest sibling and her partner. I was thinking of just sending food over to our middle sibling 2's house instead of inviting them.

What’s honestly holding me back is his wife. She has this habit of broadcasting family conversations to other people. Some of the things she shared have already put others in difficult situations and even started feuds because of how the stories spread. To be fair, our family can be ma-chika too, but whatever we talk about usually stays within the family. Also, pag sila din yung may celebration, we are not usually invited and they sometimes just send food.

ABYG for not wanting to invite them because of that?

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ABYG if i decide not to invite my other sibling to my birthday dinner because of his wife

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