Hi everyone,
Hope you’re all buzzing for the playoffs.
I’d love to get your thoughts on the best and most respectful way to fit in as a Millwall supporter as an East Asian fan.
A bit of background: I’ve lived in the UK for 10 years, 7 of those in East London. About 3 years ago I decided to support my local team. I went to a game in the Dockers Stand, got blown away by the atmosphere, and have been hooked ever since.
Since then I’ve watched most games on TV, always wearing my home shirt and scarf, cheering from home. I’ve also been to a few matches in person and even brought my parents along once. They don’t speak English, but they were really impressed by the passion and noise at The Den (and slightly terrified, in a good way).
That said, I still sometimes feel a bit out of place when I’m at the ground or watching with other fans. I’ve realised some of it might be cultural. For me, wearing the shirt and scarf feels like showing respect and passion for the club. I totally get why some fans might be wary of “tourist” behaviour like filming or taking selfies, but I thought turning up properly dressed and cheering would be a good thing.
Last week my girlfriend and I went to the Blue Anchor to watch the Oxford game because we didn't manage to get the tickets. We were both in Millwall shirts (hers was the 2020–21 one) and someone asked why we were dressed like that. Once we explained we’re locals and genuinely love the club, everyone was really friendly. Still, it made me wonder if we’re doing something wrong. Should we be more casual about it? Or would that just lead to more questions about why we’re there? I don't want to come across as cultural-appropriating by wearing a peaky blinder hat, for example. When we said we live near the Isle of Dogs (an area, I guess, which has been gentrified a bit), a few people debated whether that “counts” (In my defence, my local park is literally called Millwall Park, so I’m claiming it) - surely I shouldn't have to pretend I live elsewhere. How do I strike a balance?
I completely understand the curiosity and caution towards 'outsiders' and the club’s strong local identity. It’s part of what makes Millwall special. I just want to make sure I’m showing my support in the right way and not accidentally breaking any unspoken rules.
Would love to hear your thoughts or advice. Cheers for reading, and COYL!