u/DutcheyXD

So i got a boyfriend, we‘re both long distance and he is poly, while i‘m mono and now i have this genuine fear that he will find someone better and ignore me/leave me.

I know thats not how poly relationships go, but the fear stays and i don‘t know what to do.

I love him with all my hear, and i don‘t know if i would be able to „share“ him. I don‘t know if i‘m just too love blinded right now and if we should break up, since it probaly wouldn‘t be healthy for me nor him to try to force myself into this.

I don‘t want this to end, but i just don‘t know anymore. Advice would be really nice.

And if you see this pup, i‘m sorry.

Hey to anyone who reads this.

So i did somthing really really stupid with my boyfriend, and now he hates me, is scared and doesn‘t trust me anymore. (We are long distance).

I know it‘s stupid to talk about this, but i think i‘m losing him. It‘s valid that he distances himself from me and i understand that he need time and space, but i still love him.

I just don‘t know what to do anymore.