my ex and i had been together for 6.5 years and we started dating when we were 17. we broke up 1 month ago and have been in no contact.
so it started by us having had a minor argument which lead to 12 days of him not contacting me and so i did not text him either.
on the 12th day, he broke up with me over text and said that i was too much for him and he was losing himself in this relationship with me. i went to his place to meet up and talk and try to change his mind, however he was adamant on his decision and told me he wanted me to leave and not to contact him. i cried my heart out and told him to give us another chance and i would do anything to change the way things were. he said that he has been unhappy in this relationship for a long time and i never gave him a chance to express that. he said we aren’t breaking up because of the argument we had, but rather this was an opportunity where he could break up with me. he said even if we didn’t break up now, next time when we have an argument he would have broke up with me anyways. his body language was so cold and distant to me, and he didn’t tear up at all while i was bawling. during the relationship he was the most loving person ever and treated me so well.
it has now been 1 month of no contact, and i still wish for him to come back to me.
he has not returned any of my items that are at his place. he still uses my spotify account.
when i check my recent logins on instagram and facebook messenger, i see that he logins into my accounts every day or so. is he checking on me? or my messages? does he still care?
am i thinking too much into these signs? or does he still think of me? should i change my password and log him out of my accounts? will he come back to me if he feels like he has no access to me anymore?