u/Due-Juggernaut4771

For context I broke up with my girlfriend of a year 2 months ago, and I have been talking to this girl that I really liked when I was 19. We had tried hooking up a couple of times but each time I couldn't get it up. It was really demoralizing and even though she had nothing to do with it things fizzled out. Fast forward a year and with my ex I never had that problem not even when I was drunk. Now that its over the other girl has texted me a couple of times seeing if I want to go on a date but ive been to scared of this happening again that i keep rainchecking it. I do really like this girl but at the end of the day im 22 and like it or not sex is a massive feature of relationships. Im just wondering if anyone has had a similar experience before?