Intimacy tips while not in long term relationships
Hey guys
I am a man in my early 30s, currently experiencing somewhat of a complete body makeover, which is also increasing my confidence. I could elaborate on that a lot but that's not the point here. Basically losing a ton of weight and feeling borderline hot right now, will definitely feel sexy as hell at my goal weight.
This will elevate my confidence like nothing else could, and I have a personal need to experience more physical touch and intimacy sexually with others since I've had absolutely zero for almost 9 years.
I know that in the maybe not so distant future, I'm going to have to cross the HS discussion line with potential partners, but I do not plan to commit to a long term relationship unless someone absolutely mind blowing comes along. I have been dating this year and haven't found anyone that fits that description. Also still building up physical confidence in this department generally. Although sex is on the horizon for sure.
For people who have had semi casual sex, or sex outside of a relationship with this awful disease, what are your best tips and advice? My groin is not very active these days but the scarring and discoloration from the past like 6 years or however long looks horrid. I fully expect to never receive oral again in my life and I've come to terms with that. I am fully aware that I have hands and a mouth that have nothing wrong with them, and the pleasure of my partner is always top priority, but if I can't experience "normal" sex again I'd probably go into a deep depression for the rest of my life.
Keep in mind that I am a male searching for women. I hear the common thing like "men don't care" and what not and that might not be applicable here.
What do you think?