u/Dry_Zebra_1347

I’m in my early 20’s and tapped out of the going-out scene. A few of my friends and family members struggle with alcoholism and I’ve witnessed the life changing destruction a drunk mistake can cause.

I am not an alcoholic in the sense that I drink frequently, but when I do - I’m unable to control myself. Getting sloppy drunk and doing/saying things I would never do sober isn’t cute or fun anymore. After an incident this weekend (I wasn’t involved, just witnessed it) I’ve decided to go entirely sober. It’s for the better as alcoholism runs in my family and I’m clearly not mature enough to handle myself.

The hangxiety and feeling like garbage mentally for the next 2-3 days is not worth it. The thing is, my friends constantly suggest going out to bars or drinks for dinner as plans. I do live in a fun city area so can anyone suggest things to do that do not involve alcohol?

Planning a little solo day this weekend after the workweek and open to suggestions.

I’m nearing the end of university, putting deeper consideration into how I present myself - especially in the workplace. I’ve had a lot of networking opportunities lately and feel my clothing falls short.

I’ve been gravitating towards more modest clothing because that’s when I feel most comfortable.

I currently dress well, but I do find my style to be a little juvenile and not necessarily timeless. I want to find pieces that will maintain their quality over time. Part of this is also being environmentally friendly. I’m losing interest in low-quality fast fashion clothing.

In what ways can I elevate my style? I was thinking of buying some more basics (button downs, long t-shirts, slacks, simple belt) I’ll be exploring the thrift/consignment stores so let me know what I should keep an eye out for!

Thank you.