Hypocrisy
Heads up: This is in secondary school so cut me some slack here
I'll jump right in. I (F) and my friend who we'll call Tiana (F) have been friends since we started secondary but recently we've butted heads a few times and stuff like that but usually when she gets like that, she usually has a reason with mental health.
I was scrolling and i see that she feels insecure (I mean everyone does, we're teenagers) But this really pissed me off. She reposted a video about having a friend take a bad picture of her and spamming it on a group after she says not to. I find this EXTREMELY hypocritical.
She has multiple bad pictures of me collected over the years, put almost all of them as 'birthday mugs' on my birthday basically embarrassing me for everyone to see (She had like average 30-40 of me for every slide) and she's constantly threatened to leak some pictures of me in primary school as some videos of me are on youtube and she found them. She's also contacted my primary school friend (We'll call her Willow) and they had been secretly sharing mugs of me for a good few months without my knowledge which i put a stop to. Tiana frequently sends me these bad pictures sugar coated as 'memories' and made fun of me. there was this situation recently where an accidental mug had been taken by my friend of me and she turned it to a sticker on a group chat. It took me to asking her to stop multiple times before she finally did.
I could honestly go on for ages but I don't want to keep you here for long. Really, what I'm asking is what should I do? It's clearly fine when she does it even when i try to shut it down but when i do it, it's a crime. It's impossible for me to talk to her because she always avoids hard topics where we set boundaries so it's very difficult for me to try and work something out. Just something, I know it's such a non issue but I'm kind of lost.