u/Dry_Lavishness_6864

Not sure what to do lol

Hi! I have had my now 5 month old Goldendoodle for a little over 2 months. Everything has been going really well! She’s super smart and just the cutest :) crate training was tough at first but she learned and now sleeps through the night every night from around 11:30-6:30! With teething and just a growing puppy in general she can be a wild one at times but normally bedtime is consistent and smooth. Tonight was a different story. She was let out and put in her kennel at the normal time, given a small piece of kibble (that’s how we trained her to go in so now she will throw a fit if not given one lol) and lights out. All was well for 5-10 minutes and then boom. Barking SO loud non stop. I knew she didn’t need to go out as she just did, but this does not happen, and it kept me up for at least a good half hour, nonstop barking and whining. Again, we have a routine and this is definitely out of the ordinary. I let her out and she immediately sat with me on the couch and laid down… so cute but I’m like WTF! A few minutes go by and she gets up on her own and walks to my bedroom, so I get in bed with her and she has been knocked out in the same position since. With all of the research I have done, I’m worried I am giving her separation anxiety and or training that barking = attention. I know doing it once won’t reverse EVERY thing, but I’m just feeling nervous. I’m a first time puppy owner and really want to do this right. I’m happy to be able to cuddle with her in my own bed of course who wouldn’t be lol, just afraid it will throw things off.

Going to get some sleep and hope she doesn’t freak and have an accident in the house 😅

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u/Dry_Lavishness_6864 — 2 days ago

Hiiii I am almost 20 and currently unemployed. Past jobs were working with kids, a little in a restaurant, and housekeeping. I am unsure what path I want to take and it is stressful. I know I am young and have so much time, but I seem to be struggling. Ideal situation would be making money and doing mindless work, but I know that’s hard to find lol. I considered a coffee shop, but I have no experience and worry I wouldn’t be a good fit/scared because that’s a big change for me.

This was kind of all over the place and I’m still not sure what my point of this even is, but if you have advice for an anxious girl who needs a job anything is appreciated I feel so lost lol.

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u/Dry_Lavishness_6864 — 8 days ago