Hello,
Recently my birthday just passed and a majority of people wished me happy birthday except my longest friend of 9 years. It was over a week until she wished me happy birthday. Honestly I did not really give much feelings to it since I am abroad. I feel like it gave me perspective of where I stand in their life. It was also my 21st birthday. We also messaged and talked to hangout two days before my birthday happened. Since she wished me happy birthday and said sorry I have had a bit of a nagging feeling and not sure what to feel of it. It’s natural for people to forget things but I also have everyone’s birthday that I love in a calendar, I am even fine with people wishing me a happy birthday a day late I get life happens but over a week to someone I considered a close friend puts into perspective of where I stand or am I being too harsh?