u/Dry-Television-3383

I know Carrie & Aidan's 2nd time relashionship was flawed with insecurities but I understand Adian demanding no contact to Big - after the cheating.

Tbh for me it's Carrie refusing this request that shows that in the back of her mind there's Big still. I'm not blaming her since Big has been her big crush/crash since she first saw him- but it's still unfair to Aidan.

...And him accepting that Carrie still sees Big/invites him to the country house shows how much he wanted her (though it got toxic when it was more about Aidan showing Big that she is his etc)

Was Adian's request/Carrie's answer justified?