u/Dry-Statistician8643

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First time poster here ! Hey hi everybody👋🏿 I recently connected with a fellow co worker that’s interested in the same career pathway as me. We both jumped on a zoom call. It started off , not awkward, but straight forward. She seemed a bit reserved so I jumped straight in. After a while of questioning , she cracked a joke and I joked back. From there she started opening up a bit more. Smiling and laughing more. And I kept asking more questions and we connected a bit deeper. Turns out we both come from the same cultural background, same specific career interests, we interned at the same place and aren’t too far from each other. Now even though our meeting ended and we basically having nothing else to talk about networking wise she stated that she didn’t mind connecting again and I said I don’t either and I’m gonna email her again to ask for another meeting. Now I don’t know if she’s into girls. And while we don’t work at the same spot we’re distant coworkers at best. I’m not heavily assuming anything I just really enjoyed her vibe and wouldn’t mind more of that as a coworker and maybe friend. But here’s the thing y’all😩 we had a bit of a …moment. She made a comment something along the lines of “this is awkward “ and I replied “I don’t feel awkward! Do you … feel awkward?” I replied while laughing. And she said no and commented on my face. I’m not always aware of my facial expression. Apperantly I was nodding my head along to what she saying but it’s only because I found her to be so interesting that I was listening intently waiting for her to say more. But we ended up breaking out into more giggling and that’s how that conversation came up. Throughout the convo, once she started opening we just kept laughing and cracking jokes. I couldn’t stop thinking about how attractive she was and her smile is so damn fine and those rings ! Women with rings ! I’m honestly hoping that it was a Moment ™️and not just in my head bc I felt a vibe 😭 or maybe I’m just too bisexual for my own good. Who knows. Either way, it was an honor to connect with her and I’d be happy as co workers with the possibility of friendship one day bc she’s a whole vibe and there’s not enough of us in our field. Tell me what y’all think? I’m bugging right lmao🤣it’s ok if I am! It’s just been a minute since I’ve been genuinely interested in somebody. My laugh was genuine , my interest was genuine, my smiles. Damn.

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