u/Dry-Explanation-5530

I’m not sure if I’m overthinking this or if something’s actually off, but it seems like my boyfriend (2.5 months) might be losing interest, or could he just genuinely be busy working his 40+ hr/week job? It feels like the only time he’s really engaged or excited about me is when I stay over, especially if we’re being intimate or doing things he enjoys. Outside of that, his effort feels kind of minimal. Is this normal early on, or is it a red flag? I don’t want to seem like I’m overreacting or overthinking things because I love him but I dont know if I should confront him or not. If it helps, I’m a full time student in my freshman year of college, so we’re both pretty busy during the week. But I’m the only one who really puts effort into date nights or us hanging out at all… he never really asks me to come over anymore, and when I ask if I can, he responds with something like “I guess” or “sure…”