u/Djbola2021

I am at my ******* wits end.

Baby is 6.5 months

I have been sleep training since FEBRUARY #%*ing 26TH and my baby still cries EVERY SINGLE NIGHT. I need some serious help. Been doing CIO and last night he cried for an hour before passing out and right now he’s crying hysterically again.

Note that if I try to go in and soothe he just cries more so I don’t think another method is suitable. Happy to be proved wrong.

Total nap time - 2.75 hours
Total awake time - been experimenting from 10-11 hours
I know he’s a low sleep needs baby but holy shit I cannot figure him out and I’m becoming angry and resentful.

Typical schedule:

  1. Wake ups can vary but lately he’s getting up around 6

  2. Window 1 - 2.25 hours

  3. Nap 1 - 1.25 hours

  4. Window 2 - 2.5 hours

  5. Nap 2 - 1.25 hours

  6. Window 3 - 2.5 hours

  7. Cat nap - 15-20 mins

  8. Window 4 - 3 hours

Total sleep - 2hr45 mins on avg
Total awake time - 10.25 on avg

I’ve been trying to tweak by extending or shortening wake wjndows but still he cries EVERY SINGLE NIGHT. My first was so easy to sleep training so I am getting pissed off that this is not working the second time around.

help please.

Edit: based on Huckleberry the avg time asleep over the past 90 days is 12.5 hours.

So should I be budgeting 11.5 hours of awake time?

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u/Djbola2021 — 7 days ago